Survey Results '10: Women want more

The pillow talk of new millennium couples in the 2010 INDIA TODAY-AC Nielsen-ORG MARG sex survey tells an unprecedented story of women's arousal being thwarted and of romance gone sour. Call it the Eat Pray Love moment in the life of the modern Indian woman. Just as the lead character, Elizabeth Gilbert (Julia Roberts in the film) was asked by her Balinese healer to "pray for sex", the survey finds Indian women meditating intently on the prayer beads of fulfilling and wholesome sex. The pillow talk of new millennium couples in the 2010 INDIA TODAY-AC Nielsen-ORG MARG sex survey tells an unprecedented story of women's arousal being thwarted and of romance gone sour. Call it the Eat Pray Love moment in the life of the modern Indian woman. Just as the lead character, Elizabeth Gilbert (Julia Roberts in the film) was asked by her Balinese healer to "pray for sex", the survey finds Indian women meditating intently on the prayer beads of fulfilling and wholesome sex. Shatter those stereotypes that tell you women are not as interested in sex as men are. Overturn the idea that women favour a romantic encounter-a walk in the rain, a bouquet of roses-while men prefer to fall into bed. Check out the intricacies of the new woman's erotic litany: sex is crucial, say 70 per cent of women. No wonder, they are eager to make their sexual lives more exciting, with new situations (67 per cent) and positions (20 per cent), new types of foreplay (24 per cent), and sex anytime, anywhere. Pleasure is paramount, their own and that of their partners' (57 per cent). But that quest for hardcore sexuality is squashing intimacy and romance faster than bedbugs. There she is, fragrant on bath salts, waiting for him to look up and notice her in her lacy camisole. And there he is, sprawled on the bed, flipping channels languidly, spoilt for choice between cricket and pole dancing on the telly. He finally looks up, yawns and reaches out for her. She looks disgusted and hisses at him, "Undress yourself." And she is not alone. Between 2003, when INDIA TODAY-AC Nielsen-ORG MARG sex survey first focused on "What Women Want" and now, the percentage of women not interested in "undressing" their partners as a preferred mode of foreplay has petered down from 16 per cent to 8 per cent. Buried deep in this survey is another story: the growing happiness gap between men and women. While women show rising levels of dissatisfaction, men are full of buzz about their current sex life. Many more men than women are having weekly sex. They are more happy with foreplay than women. And more open about their own pleasures. Unlike women, an overwhelming percentage of men say their partners are "sensitive toward their sexual needs". While women don't seem to be too happy with the "sexual involvement of partners", men are. Twice as many men have sexual fantasies and they are three times more likely to share those. Not just that. They are more contented with life in general than women-much more satisfied with their jobs and just as happy as women with their health, social, family and financial lives. About a 100 years back, Sigmund Freud had famously confessed that the one great question he could never answer was: "What does a woman want?" Today's Indian men do not seem interested in asking that question, as yet. "Women's sexuality is much more complex than men's," says clinical psychologist therapist Shelja Sen of Delhi. "A lot of it is triggered by emotional, intellectual and relationship-based factors rather than the simple physical response required by a man. The brain is the crucial sexual organ in a woman." That mind-body route to sexuality takes strange forms. Dr Neena Malhotra sees a host of patients walking through the doors of the infertility clinic at the All India Institute of Medical Sciences, Delhi, who have surprisingly low coital frequency. "They are not just weighed down by erratic work hours and stress, they also don't know that a fulfilling sex life needs a boost," she says. "They roam around the shopping malls, watch TV till midnight and then there is not much time for sex." The survey tells the same story. Between 2003 and 2010, there has been a 5 per cent drop among women having sex more than once a week. Excitement about sex life has shrunk by 10 per cent among women, satisfaction after sex has come down by 11 per cent. Significantly, the focus on "own pleasure" is riding a steady upward curve. At the root of this pleasure quest could be the post-modern woman's desire to take charge of her own destiny. And, as matrimonial sites point out, it starts early. Courtships in arranged marriages these days find city girls asking some tough questions to their would-bes, as reported by a 2009 partner preference study by Bharat Matrimony: from "how close do you want to live to your parents?" to "do you expect me to stop working once we have children?" And, of course, the inevitable: "What's your idea of spending alone time?" "Compatibility is emerging as the primary evaluation criteria," says Murugavel Janakiraman, CEO, Bharat Matrimony. "This is one area where we see the most dramatic changes." There is, obviously, a paradox at work. Those demands for companionate autonomy seem to take a serious beating once the mundaneness of everyday life kicks in (to 42 per cent men and women "quality time at home" constitutes a "perfect romantic day"). No wonder, the imagined world of romance leads to disenchantment and forced reconciliation of reality with fantasy. To begin with, fewer women find their partners "romantic" than men (51:66 per cent). While 71 per cent of men share their sexual fantasies with partners, just 12 per cent women find men enthusiastic about theirs. To top it all, women don't seem to be "talking" to men to communicate their needs: those willing to discuss disappointing sex has dropped by 8 per cent between 2003 and 2010. But in a new turn, women seem keen to "tell" their partners that extra-marital liberties on their part would be promptly reciprocated. "Why can't a woman be more like a man?" mused Henry Higgins in My Fair Lady. Today's Indian woman would have made him happy. Her new assertion for sexual fulfillment and dissatisfaction with the status quo tell the new story of femininity. As filmmaker Aparna Sen says: "I like today's woman. I like her spirit of independence, of her effort to control her own destiny. She might be confused and sometimes impatient with relationships, but she is brave. The plot and characters in the battle of the sexes are shifting. Let's wait for romance and enchantment to return to the bedroom

Painful joints impact sex life: Survey

Painful joints have become a bigger and more real reason than the good old excuse of "having a headache" for people abstaining from physical intimacy, according to new research. Arthritis Research Britain conducted the survey to reveal the everyday challenges couples face in their relationships, and to raise awareness of the challenges faced by people with Arthritis and joint pain to stay intimate in their relationships. Two-thirds of the respondents between the age group of 55-69 felt that their relationship was less intimate than when they first got together and nearly a quarter of married couples say they're unsatisfied with their current love life. Nearly a third of the couples surveyed don't cuddle or hold hands enough anymore, nearly half feel that they aren't having enough sex and have sex less often than once a fortnight, reports femalefirst.co.uk. "As we rush around leading busy lives, it's easy for relationships to suffer. The survey shows that couples want to be more physically intimate with one another, holding hands, having a cuddle and having sex are all important to keep a healthy relationship," said sex expert Tracey Cox. Joint pain can affect many parts of the body including hands, hips, knees, fingers, back and neck. This makes movements that many of us take for granted, like having sex, holding hands or cuddling incredibly painful. Previous studies have shown that 13 percent of people with Arthritis found joint pain impacted their sex life.

The partners in love "weight" do not comment on ...

Do not carry the weight of partner comments Long term relationship or even if you are in love you inebriation new - new up, your partner refrain from comments like this that you put on weight 'or' you should not eat so much ... " When talking about your partner's fitness pay particular attention to the choice of words. According to huffingtonpost.com something like this are the words used should not be your partner: "You have put on weight" Weight gain is not just about eating. There are some health issues, in which the weight increases. As weight increases due to thyroid. Also Emotional eating is another cause of gaining weight. So to increase the weight of your partner, you ask him to replace the 'Are you OK?' You can even ask. "You should not eat that ' eat snacks Anheldi your partner, you do not say it directly to him that "you should not eat it ..." Avoid such comments and to prevent him from eating snacks Anheldi Let him offer some healthy food.

Each byte Teacher to Student Love in Singapore in prison

Indecent acts with his 13-to-42-year-old student teacher's Court sentenced to six months. A Court of Singapore on Wednesday took this decision. Students at many places on the female teacher was accused of biting and sexually abused. According to a report published in The Straits Times, February 5, during the trial, female teacher had confessed his crime. Students kissing on the lips and on your neck, shoulders and many places was accused of giving Love Bites. Verdict, the judge said it is a matter in which teachers teach their students can try many of forcible sex. He said that keeping in mind the interests of children in such cases the teacher decided to be sent to jail is absolutely correct. According to the teacher on duty judge had failed completely. Teacher's son was a friend of the victim , according to reports in the report the teacher's son was a friend of the victim boy. The two were together in the school football team. Teacher of friendship on Facebook for the boy and then started to chat for hours. Students met in a public park after teacher and then performed the sexual offense. Four times between October 22 to 13 November 2012, when a student asked his teacher went to school. Instead the two sometimes parks, sometimes the movie theater. Mother's guilt teacher caught his student what the teacher was walking in the park and used to make marks on his body. After one such trip for the boy's mother to see the mark. During her interrogation, his mother told us the truth about relationships with teachers. Informed about the school and the parents filed a complaint with the police. Then the teacher was suspended from school and run case in court.

Queen Elizabeth Castle of ghosts haunt the castle Holirud

If we tell you that ghosts live in the home of Britain's Queen Elizabeth. So you will not believe. But it's true. Justice must be ghosts. Snow Queen's palace, heard the sound of their footsteps today. Yes, a severe headache is entering the room of the castle, the castle ghosts still hear the sound of footsteps, the blood stain still does not clean the room. The reality is felt by the world for centuries. Research scientists and stamped on it that some secrets hidden inside the palace of the Queen. This Berkidm Palace in London rather Holirud Queen Elizabeth Castle is another castle. Getting to the Castle, where the Queen will still spend some time to relax. Even today he is living peacefully in the fort. Enter the strange awe in the heart of the fort is contained. Scotland's capital, Edinburgh, Great Britain tourists from all over the world come to that part of the series continues for years. But tourists are a major cause ghost. The fort forts Holirud the Horror Castle. Queen of the castle which once lived here and who is still the Queen's official residence in Scotland. They are past the fort well Dmmachaukdi screaming and no one said a thing. Rather Twenty Twenty people have seen the same ghost. Part of the 16th century. In this castle lived a queen Queen Mary beaut. Lord Henry was married in 1565. King became suspicious of the queen. Henry asked Mary to refrain from actions. But I did not listen to me one day when David was enjoying with a royal feast. There were some soldiers led by king when he killed David moving in the other room. David says that since the soul is asking for justice. Whatever is in that room to find her a headache. Many people have claimed to see the ghost of David. After the murder of the king and queen went the way of the needle of suspicion. Rani Mahal was leaving and moved to England at large. King Queen and her boyfriend of three souls are still wandering in Bolirud Castle. Britain's Queen Elizabeth Castle Castle Holirud. The historic fort, the more mysterious. Anyone who ever stepped inside the fort with him was definitely something weird. Khuf who have suffered from a chill up the spine, so anyone curious - hurt poor manner. Most people aspire to see properly this building stood abandoned in the middle. Ahten heard someone from the hotel to anyone São walked mysterious. Ten years ago, a team of eight scientists to uncover the truth about ghosts was inside the building. It has not yet reached any conclusions about the scientist's, but he also believed that the affair is definitely something which is beyond the grasp of everyone. The story does not end just so on the fort. Niklewali a tunnel from the fort boasts countless horror story. Holirud Castle is said to have a tunnel which connects the front of the fort ghost itself is a very big perch. Edinburgh Castle is the name of the fortress from the sixth century until 1603 the fort was the royal residence of the kings of Scotland. Edinburgh Castle is built on the mouth of a dormant volcano. The fortress used to say in the tunnel. Holirud way of a tunnel which led to the castle. Castle Holirud tunnel was added so that if someone tries to take control of the attacking king, he ran on the road to a safe place. But the way to the Czech king sent a piper in the tunnel. But you never know where she disappeared into the tunnel. Since then say to the tune of bagpipers from the tunnel and the tunnel is still audible from the bustle of funny shows.

What is true of the second wife of Asaram

Asaram enforcing a peculiar old man of rape is facing a new life came earthquake and the earthquake in the form of the second wife of Asaram. Yes, came out openly in favor of Asaram jailed a woman claimed that the Asaram Asaram's real wife, and his relationship to a physical rather than the spiritual. The amazing thing is that the wife telling himself Asaram woman exuberant family. A long time has passed now to Asaram jail. She is also constantly Arjian bail but not yet Pasija Asaram heart of the court. But, meanwhile, has appeared in court Manak Jodhpur Devi Udhel is your love for this Prannath, what they see is made. She says that Asaram years of their relationship and that relationship today but no covered - hidden or fabricated woven - but not before years of age. Asaram a half to five years ago when his brothers got them married, then he spent hundreds of millions of people even had the wedding feast. But among all these things, which is the most important thing, is that if he Asaram Manak's wife Devi, the Goddess Lakshmi, who is the first wife of Asaram? Of course, half of prison after five months Asaram Manak Manak goddess herself with her appearance, we questioned this and he replied that he had no less shocking. Manak says that Lakshmi is not only because neither his wife nor Lakshmi Devi Asaram common man. Lakshmi is the embodiment of God and his way of Asaram relationships, such as are common in humans. Of course, there are many strings attached and things goddess Manak implicated in rape charges Asaram is now felt trapped in Pechon be renewed. Asaram Manak also the first time my family went on to become their marriage, the family's Parawar was not a surprise. But with time that they have understood the impact of Asaram now head Manak is speaking up. Manak Devi's life is not like before. Its full - the whole family was going right on with their lives. Manak had three children after marriage but that such changed everyday life of Manak Meanwhile, the fate of the family have changed. Today, some 15 years ago Manak Devi Ashram of Asaram were once just that same day he came again in the effect of Asaram out that did not. First of all family members on their claims to explain them - tried to extinguish and the case was calm but gradually it became the condition that he would start a nunnery, returned to the name of the We do not want then house Asaram ashram itself until it does not dictate to return home, do not let go until the ashram of Asaram Manak. Now put it Asaram effect of hypnosis, black magic or something Manak nunnery to the goddess and her husband's home was his whereabouts. Asaram considered the impact on family members Manak goddess of years from today. Manak adding that once the Asaram Ashram Goddess jewelry of millions of home and went to the jewelry back then but she did not come back. The time taken to Jodhpur jail when arrested Asaram, Manak walked out of prison for his Mijhajpursi and also broke his leg in this action-packed day sitting. Then he asked the people of Asaram Ashram and, of course, must continue to serve the people of the house Manak. How exactly is that relationship by Asaram condition of Manak, now they do not even understand their own parents. But their relationship is some sort of Asaram According to Manak, such as Lord Shiva and Parvati Lakshmi Narayan g. Manak Devi, wife of Asaram way too long to tell himself, but is now openly Asaram way this relationship has announced that he, himself, from his family's house in Asaram has surprised everyone by.

If you do not go anywhere with tension in the bedroom ...

It is extremely important for many physical connection that you do not come into the bedroom to mental stress. A few simple measures you can enjoy a stress-free and Kamkreedha. Entered the bedroom before ... before we get to the first bedroom, office or business stop thinking about problems. Lifetime he had many problems with it - do away with, but it may be irritating to the present monotonous life, why? Diagnosis of their presenting problems associated with it unreasonable search is going to bed, it is harmful to health. Try to not keep the bed or near any important papers. Room freshener is also the mood 'up' to keep fresh flowers in the room regularly, is not possible. The room freshener scented with the fragrance of flowers can also be used to improve mood. The mood of the subject of sexual relations, as well as helps to relieve tension. Research has found that the aroma is such a special thing that inspires the mind Kamkreedha. Be aware of the light in the room should be so arranged lights, the mood completely avoid cumbersome. Like if you like it, you can use the color of the light. At such times, you should try to avoid more illuminating. Music can bring the fun music playing in the room are very slow. It may happen that you both like. Take care that the fact that the song - music lest you "work" involved in the matter except to songs. Remember that it is always on the bed - the second part of the realization of all, your goal should be ... not to worry about the rest of your life arose grows by itself.

Partner trusts, will be heart-healthy

The heart of the matter may affect the health of the heart.Psychologists at the University of Utah, says Bert Uchino Epidemiological research shows that our relationships are predictors of cardiac death in particular. Uchino and colleagues Sainthia Berg Timothy Smith and tried to figure out how that relationship affects the health of the heart inscrutability. Some of the 136 learners aged couples and couples to solve the questionnaire, which asked questions pertaining to their marital relationship and their mutual cooperation were. , Researchers found that 30 percent of people have mentioned their partner's cooperative attitude, while 70 percent cited the ever helpful and sometimes rude behavior. They found that couples who his partner was referring to mixed behavior, the CAC level was high. According to an article appearing in the journal Psychological Science, a couple, both mutual relationship and behavior towards each other affects cardiovascular health

Architectural problems in your relationship where sex is not due to defects

Adult basic need as your life or your partner is behind you, watching Departs began to steal. If your relationship is over or once the sweetness of your home, your bedroom and make sure to check architectural relationship towards it. According to the famous architect Naresh single reason behind this architectural flaw. Single sex is closely linked to the architectural. Rests on the foundation of marriage and same-sex relationships break down quickly root cause nowadays the husband - wife relationship between lack of sex itself. According to King Single reduction in sexual relations or sexual fulfillment is a direct connection from architectural defects. Single sex and love affairs according to Vastu is important to maintain freshness. If your home north - west (NW), faulty decreases your interest in sex. That is the wrong color on the walls of your home and bedroom, the plot is to make your house in his absence and the exact size of your bedroom in your life, etc. are several reasons and extra Meritl the bitterness in the cause the Affairs. If you or under your bed per single rack shoes - slippers are that the husband - wife relationship is not right. Also if you have a happy marital life with a single large double bed mattress and spread it in. If it is not possible between the mattress and spread a thick mats and then spread a sheet over them. Failing this, the husband - wife is always the possibility of conflict. Do not object to the three-bedroom, three flowers, candles etc. three. Double the husband - wife should not have water on their heads and their bedroom walls should not ruhani lighter and brighter colors. Ties to enjoy rich husband - wife of room south - west (SW) direction should make the connection. Also, if your household northeast (NE) or not sliced ​​or in spherical or is defective, it is difficult to achieve child and the child even if he may be faulty.

The woman turned her sex steeped in debt

You'll see plenty of stories in Hindi film hero or heroine with an accident after his appearance through plastic surgery to change and then identify them could do anything. Well, it was a matter of the film, but if a woman has four step further. Yes, a woman disguise, changed their sex. According to the news on Russia's Natalia hails from huge debts and court them again and again was being summoned. Natalia walled 38-year debt were not getting the money from somewhere, and when nothing occurred to him he deceived borrowers, changed their sex. The woman becomes a man in this way. According to court staff, "the woman to avoid debt have changed their sex. During our investigation we found that a woman named Natalia is now a man in his place and we did not. " Andrian Natalia took its name after a sex change. He borrowed some money to be made and new passport. Asked whether a lawsuit will not now Andrian, court staff said, despite changing gender will repay the money. It will not help anyone trying to Natalia. He will have to return loans to debtors. If he feels that he will be saved by doing so, it is his misunderstanding '. At the moment, Andrian large.