The new way to foreplay

Chances are, you and your guy have a few go-to moves that are guaranteed to get you both hot and primed for action. But sticking to the same old thing won't always lead to a bed-shaking finale. When you touch each other in a familiar way every time, your body becomes desensitised, and it won't feel as arousing. We discovered uncharted erogenous zones so packed with powerful nerve endings, just touching them takes you from 0 to 69. The ultrasensitive border around the lips Okay, so you know how to kiss. But what you probably don't know is that there's an undercover pleasure transmitter, the buccal nerve, surrounding the edges of the mouth. This is a extremely sensitive to touch, but it's often overlooked since most people focus on the plump part of the lips. Trace the tip of your finger around the edges of your mouth and you'll experience a tingly, almost ticklish feeling. Kiss him as you normally do, then use the tip of your tongue to trace the edge of his upper lip lightly. Pull back, kiss him again, then trace the border of his bottom lip. It subconsciously reminds him of your tongue swirling around the tip of his penis. The technique works when he does it to you too, triggering thoughts of his tongue below the belt. That sexy dip where neck meets chest The entire area between your jawline and shoulders is an erogenous zone, but there's one particular destination that'll spark distinct goose bumps. It's that little indentation where the neck connects with the collarbone. The skin is thinner there, and there's not as much fatty tissue underneath, so the sensations are stronger. So as you kiss down his neck, trail the tips of your index and middle fingers from one shoulder to the dip in the centre in a slow, circular motion. Then move your mouth over the spot and kiss it. The combination of the heat and touch relaxes the body, turning you on. Plus, when your guy touches you here, your entire chest becomes more sensitive, including your breasts, which increases your pleasure. Erotic pathways on the sides of the torso Snaking from the bottom of the rib cage to the hips is a powerful nerve that, when stimulated, connects directly to your clitoris and your man's penis. When you touch this area, it reflexively causes the pelvic-floor muscles to contract in both men and women, which increases arousal. Start on one side, just underneath the rib cage, and either stroke the area with your hand or alternate between kissing and lightly nibbling your way down to the hip bone. On a guy, you'll actually see his testicles and penis contracting. And you'll feel the contractions in your vaginal wall and clitoral area as he does the same move on you. These pelvic contractions create a build-up to one hell of an orgasm. That pleasure mound on the lower back The knob at the base of the spine is rife with pleasure potential nerves. So give each other a sexy rubdown. Start at the shoulder blades, and work your hands down in a kneading motion. At the lower back lightly spiral your fingers over the base. This area is so receptive, just the softest touch will send chills throughout the body. You can also brush the tips of your hair against the skin and then switch to raking your fingernails gently across it to deepen the sensation. The teasing trail on the thighs One of the most explosive nerves is located at the top of the inner thigh. It's called the ilioinguinal nerve, and it's incredibly sensitive to touch. Start by licking your finger and slowly drawing it from the mid-inner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region. Because the skin here is tender, it's important to watch how he reacts. If he flinches, you're exciting the nerve to the point where it feels too ticklish. As your guy touches you here, you'll notice your breath becoming more rapid and your pelvis starting to spasm. The reason: Caressing this area indirectly stimulates the genitals, since the nerves around it are firing pleasure signals to the brain. Now is the time to put your guy's hand exactly where you're craving it... and enjoy the ride.