My girlfriend and I are in a long-term relationship. On a night out a while ago my girlfriend had been kissing her female friend. I loved it and was joining in. Unfortunately the girls got distracted and despite my best efforts, the moment passed and we didn't go all the way.
Since then I've thought and fantasised about it on more than one occasion. I've recently suggested we spice up our stalling sex life and I have tried a few games and ideas but unfortunately things haven't improved tremendously. Do you think it's a good idea [to have a threesome] or should I leave the fantasy in our memories?
Your relationship and sex life currently
I wouldn’t recommend you make any plans for a threesome. Instead I would focus on what you describe as a ‘stalling sex life’.
You’ve suggested you ‘spice up’ your sex life - how did your girlfriend react? Can you think about other ways to connect, particularly as you mention in your longer letter (which I’ve cut for publication) that she is shy and finds these kinds of conversations embarrassing?
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