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Friday 23 May 2014

Man and woman work differently when it comes to sex


At India Today's Sexposition held at Blue Frog, New Delhi, Ma Sarita talks about sex, specifically Tantric sex and the pleasures of the understanding of the topic. "Tantric sex is about honouring the female sexuality equally. Women's needs from sex revolve around love, companionship and intimacy whereas a man seeks excitation, orgasm and ejaculation. A woman takes about 20 minutes to orgasm whereas a man is done in just 3 minutes. Hence while a woman reaches the orgasm plateau and is ready for more, the man is already cooling off, satisfied." She attributes this discrepancy to the designs and unquestionable ways of God's functioning. But she reassuringly says that Tantra helps us address it intelligently and gives us more than 1000 ways of addressing these differences. She goes on to explain the concept of peaks and valleys; peaks being the yin and she advises that right when one reaches the peak they should move into a yang zone, yang being the feminine side which is about resting in each other's arms, and love and passion. When one reaches the perfect peak-valley rhythm, a perfect combination of yin and yang, where men and women are equal partners, they are ready to experience the perfect O moment. When asked if it is simpler for homosexuals, since the yangs can take their own sweet time and reach their state of orgiastic pleasure in 20 minutes while the yins can settle for a quickie in 3 minutes, Ma Savita says that Osho would recommend that one tries the tested combination of yin and yang before settling for what logically seems simpler... the yin and yin and yang and yang association. Adding on, she talks about how the way men and women masturbate conditions their approach to sex. If a men chooses dark, dingy places and settles for a quick release that will reflect in bed. These habits however can be unlearnt. Sex is an art and one of the greatest educators of this art form is India which was the pioneer of Kamasutra. But thanks to a bunch of invaders who threatened the sexual freedom of the country we have settled to be a community which still treats sex as a taboo topic. When asked what Ma Sarita's perfect partner would be like, she coyly replies with a flirtatious smile that she would go for a deeply passionate man who practiced Tantric meditation and could dance, enjoyed massaging and was playful and wise

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